We want the MMC to SUFFER. Not in a mean way. In a "you did something terrible and now you have to earn every single inch of trust back while we watch and eat popcorn" way. Grovel is the trope where the love interest (usually him) has royally messed up and has to prove, through action and time and pain, that he deserves another chance. Angst is the emotional wreckage along the way.
The best grovel books don't shortcut it. No quick apology, no convenient misunderstanding that resolves in a chapter. The betrayal has to be real. The damage has to be felt. And the path back has to cost him something. We ranked these by how thoroughly they destroy you before putting you back together.
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Start HuntingThe Ashes and the Star-Cursed King by Carissa Broadbent
Raihn betrayed Oraya at the end of book 1. Not a small betrayal. Not a misunderstanding. A deliberate, devastating choice that shattered everything they'd built. And when book 2 opens, Oraya is NOT interested in explanations. She's not softening. She's not listening. Raihn has to earn every single inch of trust back while they're both trying to survive a political coup, and she makes him work for it in a way that had us fist-pumping through the pain. Start with The Serpent and the Wings of Night. Then strap in.
The Bridge Kingdom by Danielle L. Jensen
Lara was raised as a weapon. Trained since childhood to marry King Aren and destroy his kingdom from the inside. She falls in love instead. When the betrayal comes out (and it does, spectacularly), the sequel The Traitor Queen turns into one long, painful grovel-rescue arc. Aren has to reconcile the woman he loved with the spy who dismantled his defenses, and Lara has to prove she chose him over everything she was made to be. Read both back to back. The first book is the setup. The second is the devastation.
A Court of Mist and Fury by Sarah J. Maas
Feyre is broken after the events of book 1. Barely eating. Having nightmares. Drowning in a relationship that's suffocating her. Then Rhysand, the villain from the first book, calls in his bargain. And what follows is NOT a quick redemption. It's Feyre slowly, painfully rebuilding her sense of self while discovering that the monster from Under the Mountain might be the only person who sees her clearly. Rhys carrying the secret about the mating bond. The Starfall scene. The "to the stars who listen" moment. We reread it every few months and it still wrecks us. The angst here isn't loud. It's the quiet kind, where two broken people learn they're allowed to want things.
Lover Awakened by J.R. Ward
Zsadist is a former blood slave. He's covered in scars, filled with rage, and the idea of being touched makes him physically ill. Bella has been kidnapped by lessers, and the rescue is just the beginning. Watching Z learn to accept love, to let someone be gentle with him, to stop punishing himself long enough to realize he's allowed to have this. It's the most emotionally devastating book in the entire BDB series and it's not close. He doesn't grovel through grand gestures. He grovels through vulnerability. Through letting his walls down one agonizing brick at a time. We cried. Multiple times.
Divine Rivals by Rebecca Ross
Iris and Roman are rival columnists at a newspaper, competing for the same promotion. They're also writing letters to each other through a magical wardrobe without knowing who's on the other side. The letters are raw. Honest. The kind of honesty you only give to a stranger. Then war tears everything apart, and the sequel Ruthless Vows goes HARD on the angst. Memory loss. Opposing sides of a war. A slow, agonizing path back to each other where every reunion is stolen and every separation feels permanent. The grovel in this duology isn't about a single betrayal. It's about two people fighting a war, a literal one, to get back to where they started.
The Queen of Nothing by Holly Black
Start with The Cruel Prince. By book 3, Cardan has been crowned High King, Jude has been exiled, and the grovel is fae-flavored. Which means it's bizarre and sideways and not what you'd expect from a human groveling. Cardan's idea of an apology involves political maneuvering, cryptic letters, and choices that only make sense three chapters later when you realize what he was doing. The entire trilogy is built on the question "when did enemies become something else?" and the answer is "we're still not entirely sure, but it happened somewhere between the threats." Jude doesn't make forgiveness easy. She shouldn't.
Crooked Kingdom by Leigh Bardugo
Not traditional grovel. But Kaz Brekker trying to become a person who deserves Inej is its own category of emotional damage. He can't touch anyone. She needs someone who can. The tension between what he wants to give her and what his body and mind will allow him to give is quieter than a dramatic grovel scene and twice as painful. He shows love through schemes, through impossible rescues, through the way he dismantles an entire city's power structure partly because it's the job and partly because they took HER. Plus the heist is incredible. The romance works because it costs him something to reach for it. Every small gesture from Kaz means more than a hundred grand declarations from anyone else.
Heart of Obsidian by Nalini Singh
Kaleb Krychek is the most powerful and dangerous Psy in the world. He's been searching for one woman for years. She doesn't remember him. The grovel here is silent, obsessive devotion. A man who has bent the entire world to find her and will burn it to the ground to keep her safe. He doesn't ask for forgiveness in words. He rebuilds a life around her, protects her from threats she doesn't know exist, and waits. Just waits. For her to remember. For her to choose. You can read it standalone, but the emotional weight hits harder with earlier books in the series. Kaleb's brand of grovel is "I will rearrange reality itself and never once ask you to notice."
Days of Blood & Starlight by Laini Taylor
Start with Daughter of Smoke & Bone. By book 2, Karou and Akiva are on opposite sides of a war they can't stop. The separation angst is suffocating. They love each other and they can't be together and there is no clean solution. No grand gesture fixes it. No apology bridges the gap between two species tearing each other apart. Laini Taylor's prose makes you feel every bit of the distance between them, and the worst part is that both of them are right and both of them are wrong and it still hurts. This is angst that doesn't come from a mistake. It comes from the world being built wrong.
Iron Flame by Rebecca Yarros
Xaden's secrets from Fourth Wing come out. And Violet is NOT having it. The trust that was so carefully built across an entire first book fractures, and watching them try to function as allies while she's furious and he's desperate is peak angst. He can't explain everything. She can't forgive what she doesn't understand. They still have to save the world together, which means standing next to each other while pretending the air between them isn't on fire. Not a completed grovel arc (the series isn't done), but the emotional fallout in this book is REAL. Violet's anger isn't performative. She loved him and he lied and she's allowed to be wrecked about it.
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